Random thought/ramble- Tumblr has made us a lot more comfortable talking about plural experiences and also just being plural because of the way that it works.
To elaborate, I’m referring to a combination of a tag system, the fact you can filter tags, a lack of dislikes, and hell, even the way the comments work.
At first I didn’t like the comments because it’s hard/annoying to have a back-and-forth conversation there like I was used to with Reddit threads but that also means I can’t get into arguments like I used to all the time on Reddit, which has been good for our mental health.
But to go back to tags, what I mean by that is it’s really easy for us to talk about something exclusive to a fictive, and while we’ve been cautious about tagging any fictive posts with their sources… the fact is that we can, and if people don’t want to see fictive posts in their fandom stuff, they can just filter the tags. Win/win. It’s made us a bit more confident because, usually, people will just move on if they see something they don’t like.
And of course, the filtering is useful for us- we can filter tags like “anti endo” so we don’t accidentally interact with those kind of people as much on an otherwise normal plural post. Additionally, we’ve blocked quite a few “[character] x y/n” or “[character] x [character]” tags or similar… we have nothing against those works, it just makes some of our fictives uncomfortable, which is why filtering is so nice, because those people can keep posting and we don’t have to worry about it :) meanwhile in subreddits, we’d just be confined to whatever happens to show up on the fandom’s subreddit, even if it made our fictives uncomfortable (but our fictives like seeing stuff from the fandoms so they don’t wanna stop looking entirely!)
And also, tags are just so much better than subreddits because you can’t post to multiple subreddits, kind of- you can crosspost, but it just isn’t quite the same thing. You can find people by tagging multiple versions of something (one issue is that sometimes there’ll be two subreddits with similar names and the same theme but they’re considered completely different which splits the audience). You can ramble about whatever without having to worry about being on-topic because you can just tag everything that you discuss.
And overall tumblr just feels really nice and the higher emphasis on following users rather than subreddits and the culture around mutuals gives it this cozy, communal feeling that we like. Even though we’re a bit reclusive and don’t interact with our mutuals that much, we like seeing them around and the more user-focused style makes this place feel a lot more familiar. But we also like following tags because then we can find new users we like! So having both is like the best of both worlds.
Reddit is better at some things like getting answers, and man is r/HeroForgeMinis a great resource for learning how to improve on the site, but overall we’re much happier here (and besides, there’s nothing stopping us from having tumblr be our main social and just popping onto Reddit when we need it)
But yeah basically tumblr is great, we like it here and I’m glad the Reddit blackout gave us a chance to try it, we haven’t turned back.
- Emyr (he/it)